tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post4768042543112806557..comments2024-03-29T10:57:58.652+05:30Comments on Cloud nine: The Hope FairyCloud Ninehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-17264902526910989782011-03-05T10:48:34.869+05:302011-03-05T10:48:34.869+05:30Dear Rama,
I am so sorry about your mother. It mu...Dear Rama,<br /><br />I am so sorry about your mother. It must have been really shocking for you and your family, especially your father. When someone so dear like a mother dies all of a sudden,it is a rude shock. The feeling of guilt we feel after one such untimely death is something we always have to nurse, till our deaths. There will be lots of Ifs and Buts...guilt drowning us. But may be God thought it was better that way. May be she was saved of further suffering, agony and pain, May be God took her peacefully away. I am glad for your father who is a survivor. It must have taken lots of hope and determination. Hats off to him and wish him a long happy life:) Thanks for your kind comment Rama:)Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-71781629505003809112011-03-04T22:09:21.109+05:302011-03-04T22:09:21.109+05:30I can understand how shocking it must have been fo...I can understand how shocking it must have been for all of you. My mother too died rather unexpectedly.She was having terrible pain in leg,it was a kind of chronic pain, and that day she kept complaining to my father that he didn't really care for her, he was only worried that taking her to a proper doctor meant extra expenses and all sorts of things. So that day he told her she is wrong , and took her to a nearby hospital to get everything checked up to her satisfaction, they sent her up with a nurse to do some ECG as the doctor felt she had palpitation, and mother was taken up to room upstairs for the test. The doctor and my father were discussing the reason for her condition, and the usual history that a doctor would want to know. <br />At that moment , the nurse came running calling the doctor, saying something has happened to the patient, and when they reached there my mother had actually had massive heart attack, no amount of reviving her helped she just died suddenly.<br />It is sad that she was upset with my father for no fault of his, of course their 49 years of marriage was always not without the ups and downs, but they always loved each other very much, despite always fighting with each other.<br />I don't know what to write , it was a big shock for all of us. To think my father was right there, but ironically he did not know that, she was dying, nor would my mother have known that she was going too die.<br />This happened when my mother was just 65, and now my father is still missing her presence, while he is going to be 90 in a few months.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-3191489439304414762011-03-04T19:16:02.856+05:302011-03-04T19:16:02.856+05:30Thanks for your comments anonymous! I like your te...Thanks for your comments anonymous! I like your technical comments though!<br /> 1. Prolonged ulcer always leads to cancer and if it is prolonged, the best thing suggested would be a biopsy. (This knowledge came very late for us, sadly)<br />2. Common man always remains at the mercy of doctor dear and his opinion<br />3. That is motherhood!Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-70367890547380612522011-03-03T23:45:42.197+05:302011-03-03T23:45:42.197+05:30emotionally no commnts. but technically 3 or 4 com...emotionally no commnts. but technically 3 or 4 commnts cn b raised.<br />1.Hw do a doctor diagnose CANCER as an ULCER and have given prolonged treatment?<br />2.If it happens to an highly educated person.. what to say of a common man/illiterate////?//?<br />3.why do moms in gen take no/little care whn it comes to themselves.(Wher as they make a huge protest if their kids get by even a blade while sharpening a pencil).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-20009931566760844072011-03-03T12:23:54.794+05:302011-03-03T12:23:54.794+05:30Dear Naveen,she IS there for every one of us- for ...Dear Naveen,she IS there for every one of us- for you, for me, for our whole family. You were indeed too young back then and having learnt the hard way about love and care, you would certainly be a great human being, a gentle son, a loving husband and an adoring father some day. Love you and miss you...Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-48506859582994872402011-03-03T04:48:19.559+05:302011-03-03T04:48:19.559+05:30If only I had the chance to speak to her when she ...If only I had the chance to speak to her when she was fine! If only I could speak to her once! If only she was there for me for once! If only she could speak for me for once! <br />I learnt the hard way that "its now or never!" If you love someone just say it or do something to show them you love or care when you are with them.Probably I was bit young to realise the fact that self priorities had to be sacrificed in any form of relationship!NAVEENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02964455274074998482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-52086055243802178822011-03-02T14:40:42.309+05:302011-03-02T14:40:42.309+05:30Dear Vijayan, Thanks a lot for your valuable comme...Dear Vijayan, Thanks a lot for your valuable comment. Life teaches us all precious lessons at the cost of a few lives...I have learnt Hope, and as you say, no matter what the destination is, i intend to carry it wherever i go:)Thanks again:)Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-85293610112099523542011-03-02T14:39:11.198+05:302011-03-02T14:39:11.198+05:30Thanks a lot for your kind comment Bhinduja. Knowi...Thanks a lot for your kind comment Bhinduja. Knowing her personally so well, you must be aware how she resonated with positive vibes:) Thats what i loved in her...Miss her:(Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-38475200106296146622011-03-02T14:13:22.887+05:302011-03-02T14:13:22.887+05:30Hope - the thing which keeps everything on the mov...Hope - the thing which keeps everything on the move.<br /> <br />I too love the Frost lines. Hope, I too keep the promises and go the miles before i sleep. I am reminded of the fact that its the journey that matters more than the destination. So enjoy, learn from and spread what u've learnt from, the journey of the miles. You'll never worry abt the destination.<br /><br />Vijayan.A. Vijayan.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796826042765738199.post-69798099328145055382011-03-02T13:41:17.410+05:302011-03-02T13:41:17.410+05:30I know her from my childhood...all i can remember ...I know her from my childhood...all i can remember about her is,"" the smiling & cheerful face""...Bhindujanoreply@blogger.com